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So far Dana Lam has created 40 blog entries.

Are Opposite-Sex Friends Okay?


Have you ever wondered if friends of the opposite sex are OK?  They are as long as you set boundaries.   We ourselves have had this issue come up within our relationship and had to [...]

Are Opposite-Sex Friends Okay?2018-09-02T14:08:35-07:00

The 90-Day FFR Challenge


Do you already have a great relationship “and” want to find ways to make it even better? For those of you who don’t know, FFR is the verb of Fun Fantasy Ritual. It’s the “action” [...]

The 90-Day FFR Challenge2018-08-25T17:00:50-07:00

First Ever FFR Weekend Getaway


Fun Fantasy Rituals or “FFR’s” as we like to call them are the actual dates we plan for each other monthly.  Up until this past weekend, they had always been planned as a single day [...]

First Ever FFR Weekend Getaway2018-08-11T20:52:40-07:00

A Male Perspective, Part 1


As a man, one of the most challenging hurdles I’ve encountered is in being “vulnerable” in my love relationships.  Yes I’ve had my moments of vulnerability, but my relationship with Dana has proven time and [...]

A Male Perspective, Part 12018-08-10T09:32:22-07:00

Breaking Up is Not an Option


People frequently comment on what a great relationship Marty and I have.  While I do have to say this is the best relationship I have ever been in, there have also been challenges along the [...]

Breaking Up is Not an Option2018-05-28T09:20:35-07:00

Summer Getaway to the Verde Valley Arizona


Getting away for a few days to unwind and connect with your partner is always a good idea.  I grew up in the Cottonwood, Arizona and it was not as exciting in the 80’s as [...]

Summer Getaway to the Verde Valley Arizona2018-05-27T13:57:58-07:00

Couples FFR at Pinspiration


As most of you know, Fun Fantasy Ritual is our company and “FFR” is the acronym of how we refer to an event or activity that we’ve committed to surprise the other with at least [...]

Couples FFR at Pinspiration2018-05-23T07:10:06-07:00

1,095 Days & Counting


Gansevoort Hotel Providenciales, Turks and Caicos Islands April 14, 2018 Sipping a lovely glass of Rose from Provence, France and watching the palm tree sway in front of our room overlooking the teal blue ocean.  [...]

1,095 Days & Counting2018-04-21T17:01:01-07:00

7 Ways to Create Trust in Your Relationship


 I recently visited YouTube and a Brené Brown video caught my attention.  If you’re not familiar with Dr. Brown, she is best known for her work on Shame and Vulnerability.  The title of the video, [...]

7 Ways to Create Trust in Your Relationship2018-03-08T21:57:40-07:00

6 Valentines Gifts That Won’t Break the Bank


There always seems to be a lot of pressure around the commercial holiday’s we’ve created.  We wanted to give you some simple easy ideas just in time for Valentine’s Day; but anytime is a good [...]

6 Valentines Gifts That Won’t Break the Bank2018-02-05T09:58:34-07:00